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Relationships: Keep the holiday vibe alive all year round
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Protect your privacy to retain your mystique

 

 - Protect your privacy to retain your mystique
Privacy is important for sexual arousal. The fact that you brush your teeth while he's in the shower, reveal your greying old knickers before you get into bed and don't bother to shut the toilet door properly are signs of closeness, but a lack of mystique can have a negative effect on your sex life.

The mystery of what lies underneath your clothes is a real turn-on, so even if you know his body like the back of your hand, keep nudity sacred.

"Don't make the sight of your naked bodies commonplace. If you see too much of each other, you won't fantasise as much about each other. Learn to undress sexily, as if every time was like the first," advises our sexpert.

Don't treat him to the sight of you hopping around the bedroom in the morning in your bra and socks, searching for a clean pair of pants. Make him feel like he's re-discovering your body every time by getting changed out of his sight. It will keep his curiosity flowing!

And when you do parade around in your undies, make sure they're your sexiest ones, not the sort you only wear when it's the time of the month or you're low on clean pairs.

He's been admiring your bronzed, sleek bikini bod all summer, so give him a reminder with fake tan and shimmering body oil. Slip into your slinkiest bandeau bikini and surprise him when he gets back from work one day - it will make you relive your memories of holiday sex!




  
  

Sarah Horrocks
23/07/2009
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