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The Spontaneous Sex Tips That'll Blow His Mind

Vivian KELLY
By Vivian KELLY Published on 11 February 2015
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Wanna know what makes you totally irresistible to your man? From adding a bit a glamour to your look to forgetting your knickers and sending him frisky texts, there are tons of ways to get your man revved up and ready to go. Try our 10 simple spontaneous sex tips (not all involving the dirty) that will Blow. His. Mind. guaranteed!

1. Undies are a no no...

‘Forgetting’ to put your panties on when your out and about with you beau is a sure way to make him hot with excitement. All he’ll be thinking is how much he wants you right then and there. (Better hope there’s somewhere near for a quickie.) Tip: wear a dress for easy access.

2. Wear bright red lipstick

There’s just something oh-so-sexy about a women with a crimson lip and the men we spoke to about it fully agreed. Pop on a beautiful scarlet shade and watch your lips take centre stage as your man's kept dreaming of all the places he’d love to have them.

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3. Strut your stuff in the sexiest lingerie

Men love lingerie just as much as you do! Ditch the ordinary day wear and put on your steamiest Angels’ set. Even better, why not surprise him with his fave home cooked dinner, wine and YOU for dessert? Trust, he won’t even know what hit him.

4. Send him a saucy video

If there’s one thing your man wants for Valentine’s Day it’s a hot steamy vid of you showing him how much you need him. A sexy surprise like this will have him drooling over his phone. Plus he'll be so fricken aroused that he’ll hardly be able to concentrate at work! The best time to do this is when you catch him off guard on a stressful day. Press that send button girl and let the visuals take him over.

5. Be spoken

Women who are spoken in bed send men to the moon. Letting your man know that you’re enjoying yourself and that he feels amazing is a pretty simple way to turn him on. Don’t be shy about letting go of your inhibitions. Let loose, tune everything out and let the sensations take over your body. Tip: Dig your finger nails into his back or scratch him lightly to pull him closer. This is sure to get him revved up.

6. Don’t forget suspenders...

A women in lingerie is one thing, but pair it with hosiery and suspenders and you’ll be too goddam hot to handle. Adding this touch of seductiveness to your lingerie will make your legs look longer, slimmer and so model-esque. Only thing he needs to figure out now is how to get them off you...

7. Wear tight gym clothes to hug your curves

Seeing a locker room full of naked women at the gym is pretty much every gym junkie’s fantasy so there’s nothing quite as sexy as seeing you, fresh out of the gym with skin tight gym gear on, hot, sweaty and feeling sexier than ever. Your endorphins will be rocketing!

8. Wear something revealing

Showing a bit of cleavage, wearing a sheer top or putting on a mini skirt isn’t tasteless, it’s actually super seductive. This isn’t one for first dates though. If you're in a long term relationship and it's been a while since your man’s seen you wear something kinky, slip on something a little bit more daring than your usual and remind your man how much he really aches for you. Act innocent, but be playful - once he catches on, the rest will be sexstory!

9. Give him a BJ on a night out

If you’re going on a hot dinner date why not turn your beau on by playing footsie with him under the table? Talk about how much you want him over dinner and tell him about all the things you wish you could do to him right then and there. His thoughts will be racing at a 100mph and before you know it, he’ll be dragging you to the toilets for some kinky fun. Spontaneity is key here ladies.

10. Pleasure yourself in front of him

There’s nothing sexier to a man than watching his girl enjoying herself. Yep, that's right. THAT red, sweaty, scrunched up face? For men, it's CRAZY hot. Relax and pretend like no one's around. But don’t forget to tie your partner up first - he won’t be able to keep his hands off you for very long...

What other sex tips do you have? Tweet us @sofeminineUK!

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